It is hard to believe a month has passed since we welcomed our precious little girl into the world. In some ways, it feels like we were holding her for the first time just yesterday. In others, it feels like she has always been a part of our family. This first month has been nothing short of beautiful, a season marked by tender moments, some sleepless nights, and a heart overflowing with gratitude.
There is something magical about watching our family grow—not just in number but in love. Jaden, Wendo, and Tana have embraced their baby sister in the most beautiful ways. Their curious hands and watchful eyes are filled with wonder and pride. Every kiss they plant on her tiny forehead, every whispered “I love you,” and every moment of quiet (and not-so-quiet) play around her is a testament to the bond that is already forming.
This month has been a learning curve for all of us. For me, it has been a reminder of how beautifully God weaves families together. Seeing each of the older children step into their roles as big siblings has been nothing short of awe-inspiring. Jaden’s gentle protectiveness, Wendo’s nurturing heart, and Tana’s bubbly excitement—it is a symphony of love playing out in real time.
Our house is a little louder these days, filled with laughter, baby coos, and the occasional cries when sleep eludes us. But amid the noise is a deep sense of peace—a reassurance that this is exactly where we are meant to be.
Of course, life with a newborn is no easy feat. The nights are shorter, the feedings are frequent, and moments of uninterrupted rest feel like rare treasures. Yet, there is something sacred about those quiet hours in the middle of the night, holding her close and whispering prayers of thanksgiving for this gift we have been given.
Rest, I have realized, is not just about sleep. It is about finding moments to pause and breathe, even amidst the busyness. It is in the moments I take in her tiny features—her delicate fingers curling around mine, her peaceful expressions as she drifts off to sleep. It is in watching the children discover new ways to love her and in the quiet whispers of gratitude I find myself offering throughout the day.
There is a sweetness in this season that words struggle to capture. It is in the way her presence has brought out the best in all of us. It is in the lessons she is teaching us about patience, grace, and the beauty of starting fresh.
God has been so present in this season. He is shown up in the big things, like her safe arrival and her health, but also in the small things, like the extra grace for short nights and the joy that fills our hearts when we are all together.
Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him.” This truth feels so tangible in this moment. She is a reward—not just for us but for her siblings, who are learning to give and receive love in new ways.
This first month has reminded me that life does not have to be perfect to be beautiful. It has taught me to embrace the chaos, to find joy in the little things, and to lean on God for the strength to get through the tougher moments.
It has also taught me the importance of grace—grace for myself when everything is not perfectly planned, grace for the older children as they navigate sharing attention, and grace for my husband and I as we adjust to this new chapter.
Above all, it has reminded me of the beauty of family and the gift of love.
As we step into the next month with our little girl, I am excited to see how our family continues to grow. The journey is just beginning, and I am determined to savor every moment.
To every mama out there in the throes of the newborn season, I see you. The short nights, the endless feedings, the tired eyes—they are all part of the incredible, messy, beautiful story of motherhood. Embrace the season, cherish the moments, and remember that God’s grace is always sufficient.
Here is to the next chapter, one filled with more laughter, love, and the sweet surprises that only a little one can bring.
Love,
Muthoni Kabera
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Good job. May God's grace keep holding you up and your family.